The more we learn NVC, the more we seem to be able to see pitfalls. And the more we discover and become aware of the pitfalls and know how to deal with them, the more real we can make our communication. Almost everyone studying NVC falls in love with empathic listening at some point, and start to see it as the solution to everything. We might overdo empathic listening at some point, starting to see it as the solution to everything. We might forget that sometimes it is safer and saner to use prot