Prisoners Dilemma
Post thumbnailPrisoner’s Dilemma an introduction to game theory
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Read More Prisoners DilemmaI think there is a lot in the idea of “defensive messaging”, if we are constantly defending ourselves – shit sticks
We are better to support “bodily autonomy” for women than defend against “foetal right”
Read More Antonia Scatton is framing the debateI was trained in TA, seriously, for work as well not just as a hobby. I particularly like the ideas about “games” ‘Blemish’ – this falls into the party games category and is a game in which you are insecure about yourself and cannot feel comfortable in any interactions until you have found some sort…
Read More BlemishPeople rarely respond willingly to demands while they might respond to requests and the key idea is it is OK if they don’t. “We can help others trust that we are requesting, not demanding, by indicating that we would only want the person to comply if he or she can do so willingly. Thus we…
Read More Demands versus requestsThe poem goes When love has gone there is always justiceWhen justice is gone there is always forceWhen force has gone there is always love someone Most of us would prefer to live in a loving trusting environment but things happen and so we cooperate with each other based on law and professionalism. It works……
Read More On trustI used to work with Richmond Fellowship, which at the time was a therapeutic communityEvery morning we would have a therapeutic group. One morning someone said “I am very angry with someone here but I’m not saying who it is” All day long we thought about it, is it me?, what did I do?Every one…
Read More Only hurts the one’s that give a stuff.Once you recognise these weak tactics, you can easily outwit them
So we should focus on that relentlessly and never get distracted by bullshit, bad faith arguments.
Read More How to handle bad faith arguementsI don’t censor and this ain’t Facebook
If someone says something shitty
It stays here
Some people enter into a conversation `for productive and honest reasons, “Good Faith”
Some people come for mischief, in “Bad Faith”
How do we tell the difference and what can we do about it?
Read More Endgames of Bad Faith CommunictionI would like to suggest that saying “some people here are idiots” is also unacceptable
Read More We all know that calling someone an “idiot” is unaceptableOnce you recognize these weak tactics in your mentions, you can easily outwit them
Read More A Field Guide to Bad Faith ArgumentsReversing the downward spiral of mutual distrust. Source: The Endgames of Bad Faith Communication
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