I think this idea causes a lot of harm
We exist in a world,
If someone parks a VW on your foot
You will feel pain.
and
Your emotions will be fairly predictable.
And
No amount of pretty philosophy will change this.
so
Someone
and,
necessarily someone else, will need to move the car for you.
and
It’s not your “fault” or “inadequacy”
It’s the real tangible world doing its thing.
