Character Assassination
Most people do not assassinate the character of others. If you see this behavior in someone you have contact with, consider being guarded in their presence and avoid being alone with them.
Read More Character AssassinationBrisLETs i where I study bullying at the moment maybe the structure shifts when I do
Most people do not assassinate the character of others. If you see this behavior in someone you have contact with, consider being guarded in their presence and avoid being alone with them.
Read More Character AssassinationWe have more to fear from stupid people than evil ones
Read More Bonhoeffer’s “theory of stupidity”I am appalled by the escalating level of abuse and personal attacks on members
including me by Suzanne and Kelly,
especially in the BrisLETS forum.
2 committee members conspiring to block a third from communicating with members is indefensible
Read More Open Letter to BrisLETs CommunityIf you are amongst the attacked (and you probably are) .
feel free
to comment.
Andrew writes at https://letspayit.com/2022/12/11/a-cat-amongst-the-pigeons/
Local copy
It reads so much like Andrew’s confession
Read More Another Public Attack and a confession?I think that there are a few nutters who are driven to power and control
they are driven, by various human pathologies
The best strategy is to ignore them
they can’t control sane people unless we pay them attention
but
They do take power and control so eventually, we either need to respond or move on.
In 2012, then Labour Prime Minister Julia Gillard and Employment and Workplace Relations Minister Bill Shorten announced a review into Bullying in the Workplace, by the House Standing Committee on Education and Employment. The review examined the nature, causes and extent of workplace bullying and considered proposals to prevent bullying cultures developing as well help…
Read More Inquiry into workplace bullyingBullying behaviour is often motivated by a desire to meet basic needs for recognition, attention and approval. It is a misguided attempt to increase your popularity by making other people look small.
Read More Children get bulliedThere is a kind of bullying, where someone will find a critical doorway and stand there, refusing to move. Hilarious unless we have a job to do 🙂 The trouble for them is, it’s too easy to overplay that hand and discover that people have found another path and are just going around them. not…
Read More The thug in the doorway To succeed in the world it is not enough to be stupid, you must also be well-mannered.
Voltaire
…are techniques that the bullies use Frivolous or Vexatious Complaints distract from the issues and people of good faith will often waste energy and stress on complaints lodged in bad faith, to the amusement of the bullies. Frivolous or Vexatious means a complaint that has no reasonable or sound basis in fact or law, is…
Read More Frivolous or Vexatious ComplaintsI think it’s because a loss of control over their victims seems like a fundamental attack on their autonomy, bullies genuinely feel attacked an bullied by non-compliance
Read More Why do the bullies always claim they are being bullied